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Episode: #43 Alice Little on intimacy, connection and why our perceptions of sex work are very wrong

Who: Alice Little is the number one booking legal sex worker in the United States and works as a courtesan at the Moonlite Bunny Ranch. At only 4ft 8in, she is by far the tiniest lady at the legal brothels in Nevada. A New York native, she has worked as an EMT and horse jockey, loves electronic and tabletop entertainment, and adores intellectual stimulation. A frequent visitor to Virginia City and fascinated by its history, she loves exploring Nevada and all it has to offer. Alice has presented at over 50 Kink and BDSM events nationwide and frequently help couples with their problems in and out of the bedroom. She has recently started writing relationship advice articles for She Knows Media and was also recently featured on the Tim Ferriss Show.

In this interview, we discuss the benefits of sex work, intimacy, building connection with others and why your perceptions of sex work are very likely to be wrong. This topic may not be for everyone but Alice is very humble, honest, open and truthful about the pros and cons for sex workers and is trying to make the industry better for those who use it and work in it.

This interview may offend some but this podcast is here to delve into all areas and find out more and what makes people so successful and so appealing to others. Sex work is one of the oldest industries around and we would be doing a disservice to men by ignoring where we go wrong and by ignoring the industry and its positive benefits that can be provided to those who use it. I have never used a sex worker but this did not mean I was not interested in finding out more and learning about the other side of life as the saying goes. I hope that if anything, like Alice says you learn that sex workers are humans too and deserve the same level of respect and interest as anyone else and hopefully this interview changes your perceptions on sex work too or helps you at least consider your current views on the industry and those who work in it.

 

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I hope you have as much fun listening to this one as I did interviewing ? enjoy! This one is probably not suitable for listening to at work!

 

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What we cover

  • Who she is and why you may have heard her name
  • Her upbringing and how it shaped her outlook on life
  • Is there a common problem that is identifiable in her customers and why they come to see her?
  • What is her definition of masculinity and where do men go wrong?
  • How someone interested should try sex work for the first time
  • Why is the ‘Girlfriend Experience’ so popular among her clients?
  • What does she enjoy the most about her job? How has it changed her and her outlook on life in general?
  • Has she encountered negative reactions to her chosen profession?
  • Has the acceptance of sex in today’s society, changed the type of people she encounters as a client
  • Any favourite client transformations of hers
  • Why she has been more successful than other professionals in the sex industry
  • How does the age of the client affect how they interact and the type of services they look for
  • How does she deal with the feelings that sex and connection may raise with her customers
  • What does she consider will be the evolution of sex work – will it ever be legalised nationally or internationally and accepted throughout?
  • How does she deal with the fast-break questions?
  • What she hopes people take from the interview?
  • How you can keep in touch with her
  • And so much more

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Episode: #14 Hayley Quinn on a new approach to love, dating and getting the life that you want to lead

Who: Hayley Quinn. Hayley Quinn is a world-renowned dating coach and feminist pickup artist, who is teaching men and women, a new approach to love, social skills and making a real connection. I have been a major fan for a long time and she is one of the best dating coaches around today. As she says, “she teaches men and women a new approach to love which emphasizes personal responsibility, action, empathy and belief that you can design the life that you want to lead”.

 

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What we cover:

  • Who is she
  • How she went from her own bad dating history to becoming a very successful pickup artist
  • How she can be a feminist and a pickup artist
  • How you can become better with women and still keep your values, morals, and dignity
  • How she would define masculinity and what she considers makes a man attractive
  • What in pickup can actually hinder your skills with women
  • What is the biggest problem facing men today
  • Quick fixes you can make to make your life better right now regardless of what (you believe) are problems in your life
  • How to overcome the negative side of change as you work on bettering your life
  • What is emotional intelligence, how you can develop your own and when you should push yourself or not
  • Why you need to replace ‘you’ with ‘I’ more
  • Why being objective and self-aware are skills you want to develop
  • The importance of working out what you want in your life
  • How to deal with roadblocks in attraction such as age gaps, need for parental approval etc and when you should walk away and move on
  • Actions are stronger than intentions
  • How to make a life of adventure and a strong social circle
  • Why you shouldn’t label yourself as your interests will change as you grow older
  • What you should take away from listening to this interview
  • Her awesome course ‘Academy’
  • Hayleyquinn.com/approach
  • How to keep in touch with her
  • So much more

 

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