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Channelling your inner James Bond with David Zaritsky


Today, we have a cracking interview with Bond-Guru David Zaritsky on how you too can channel your own Inner-Bond skills and become like Bond in your own life.

I love David’s The Bond Experience as I have loved James Bond as a child. I have watched the films hundreds of times and day dreamed since a young child trying to be as close to Bond as possible.

When I found David’s site, I was delighted. He has cracking, heavily detailed videos and lives the James Bond lifestyle. His posts and videos cover all aspects of the James Bond lifestyle. However, he doesn’t fall into the trap of just trying to sell the expensive Bond style items. David writes about how you can become Bond like on any wage. David is a highly likeable guy, stylish and very confident. You can’t help not watch video after video of his.

After being a major fan for years, I asked David to feature on this site as we are very similar. We both use films to better our lives. After watching this interview, you’ll be channelling your Inner-Bond in no time!




The questions I asked David was:

1) Can you tell me about your journey from normal dude to Bond guru? What started your journey on living your life like 007? Was there a defining moment that caused it? How has becoming more like James Bond affected your life for the better/worse?


2) What is it about the James Bond character that you feel makes him such a great role model for men?


3) What three tips would you give to the ‘Average Joe’ to begin their transformation and become more Bond like?


4) Which of the Bond movies is your favourite and why? What did the film teach you or cause you to adopt in your live to become more Bond-like?


5) There is a massive James Bond fan-base spread out all over the world, different nationalities, religions etc but Bond ties us all together and helps us focus on bettering our lives by focusing on a role model. Can you give any great examples of how Bond has inspired or changed one of your readers lives for the better?


6) Which three of your videos are you most proud and why? Please send me the URL links and I will include them in the post.


7) If someone wanted to become more Secret-Agent in their life, what is the first area of their life that you would recommend they looked at (e.g. health, finance etc) and why is this the best area to pick?


8) One of the best things on your site, in my opinion, is the ‘Frugal Bond’. Can you explain your idea of dressing more like Bond but cheaper? How should my readers begin to dress better and more Bond like?


9) Confidence and self-belief are major components of Bond’s personality. They shine through in Bond in every film as he scores with a lot of hot women. If you were to give three tips to my readers on how to get Bond-Good with women, what would they be?


10) Finally, if you were to talk to all of men at once, what would you say – what motivation or telling off would you say? If you could give all men a final message what would it be?



If you want to find out more about David, you can at the following links:


Let me know what you think in the comment section below.


How to be Alpha with a girl – James Bond (Daniel Craig)


What is it?

Character: James Bond (played by Daniel Craig)
From: James Bond Films!
Type: Film
Year: 2006
What is this clip about: James Bond meets the über sultry Vesper Lynd (Eva Green) for the first time and they sound each other out over dinner. This is my favourite film and this clip blew my mind the first time that I saw it. It is probably the first time in a James Bond movie that Bond is challenged by a ‘Bond Girl’. I am hoping to go into this scene further in future posts.


Why should I watch it?

  • Bond and Vesper give a master class in the ability to shift who is holding the power in a conversation back and forth by simply what you say.
  • Bond sounds her out to see if she is worth his time. He makes her work to see if she is worth pursuing. He is self-amusing and doesn’t supplicate to her.
  • Bond tools her repeatedly and draws her in, she responds to him throughout. Bond is brilliant in how he engages women throughout the film.
  • Bond stays on the right side of confidence vs arrogance. He thanks her for mentioning his ass (which could lead to an arrogant reply), but he also uses self-depreciating language to avoid coming across as arrogant (sympathising with the skewered lamb).
  • Bond talks masculine in a deep and slow manner, maintains strong eye contact and dresses smartly. These all allow him to feel good within himself and project the confidence outward. He is also in great shape and this makes him feel confident and secure in himself.This clip is a great example of how you can draw confidence from your daily life.


How can I do that?

  • Stop putting women on pedestals – stop making them ‘special’. A lot of dating guys will not put any serious work or be too bothered towards a woman in any way until he has slept with them.
  • Self-amuse around women. Go out simply to have fun – women are a secondary consideration. Build a life of great fun and excitment and women will be naturally attracted to you.
  • Look to hang around with people who challenge you and encourage you to learn new skills and better yourself. As the old saying goes: “if you’re the smartest person in the room, you’re in the wrong room!”
  • Have hobbies and interests that you enjoy and can talk about. Be interested in the world around you and during interactions with people.
  • Dress confidently and maintain the virtues of deep masculine tone, strong eye contact, get into shape etc.
  • Appreciate and enjoy the little things in life e.g. a great conversation.

So, who do you think won in that scene? Did it blow your mind or suck ass? Let me know in the comments below and then watch another!