Episode #49 RSD Max answers your questions

Episode: #49 RSD Max answers your questions

Who: Today’s guest is extraordinary dating coach RSD Max (@rsdmax). Max is a dating coach with RSD Nation and has just launched the most successful dating product ever, called ‘The Natural’, which has broken all records. He teaches guys how to become a natural with women by developing and unleashing their true potential. He is described by RSD Nation as having ‘an amazing repertoire of stories … and has a gift for teaching self-development and lifestyle enhancement as well. His teachings focus on state of the art strategies and knowledge on how to pick up women and become the man you have always wanted to be.’

This interview is slightly different as it is not really an interview. I collated together a bunch of questions I received from readers and we covered these during our chat with Maxx offering hints and tips to fix the issues, in a ‘Ask the Expert’ feature. If you enjoyed this and would like to see more of these types of chat, let me know by using the contact form on the site or sending me a message on social media. I think Maxx is fantastic here giving some life-changing advice for men listening.

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Episode #006 – RSD Max on how you can become a natural with women

Who: RSD Max is today’s guest. Max is a dating coach with RSD Nation and has just launched the most successful dating product yet. He teaches guys how to become a natural with women by developing and unleashing their true potential.

He is described by RSD Nation as having ‘an amazing repertoire of stories …  and has a gift for teaching self development and lifestyle enhancement as well. His teachings focus on state of the art strategies and knowledge on how to pickup women and become the man you have always wanted to be.’

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How to Seduce Women With Their Own Weapons

The weapons of a woman can be deadly.

All a beautiful woman has to do is to reveal a bit of her cleavage, look at you in a seductive way and whisper naughty things in your ear. That’s enough to make you fall for her.

You wouldn’t be the first man who would become a victim of the weapons of women. Thousands of men before you have lost their sanity and their money in the pursuit of beautiful women.

Don’t be naïve and believe that girls don’t know what they do. They know exactly what buttons they have to push and what words they have to say to make your heart melt. They know how to use their weapons and you should know how to use yours.

Just because women are masters in using their charm, their subtle signals, their way of communicating and their nasty tests to turn confident men into loyal puppies, doesn’t mean that you can’t do the same.

It might sound crazy but you can actually use the same weapons that women use. All you have to do is to learn from the other sex, to modify their weapons to your needs and to use those weapons against them.

Allow me to show you how you can attract and seduce gorgeous women by using the same weapons they use to make men addicted to them.


Get Noticed

What is the first thing that women do when they plan to attract a guy in a bar or club?

They spend at least two hours in the bathroom. They remove every single pubic hair, they make sure that all their holes smell like vanilla and they spend more time searching for the right clothes than you spend at work. They do everything in their power to look good, to smell good and to shine like movie stars. No

No woman wears high heels in a club because they are so comfortable. They do it because guys are magically drawn to long legs that stand on high heels. They know what they have to do to get the guys they want.

I don’t say that you have to spend two hours in the bathroom the next time you go out, but adopting this strategy is definitely not the worst idea. The strategy to use clothes, smell and grooming to get noticed among the other men can actually lead to success with the ladies.

The chance that she notices you while you stand next to two other dudes is a lot higher when you smell better, have a better haircut and the better clothes. You can say what you want, but the first impression is important. Make sure that you leave the best first impression you can.

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Guest Post: Why Some Men Lose The Dating Game

Hi, today we have an awesome guest post from an up and coming writer by the name of Sebastian, who writes about men, women and the chaos that most men call dating life!

Over to Sebastian ….



My name is Sebastian and I am the owner of www.seductionsextravel.com. My vision is to help men to live a life true to themselves and a life in which they can be authentic, honest and confident in the presence of women. I write articles about foreign dating and seduction in different cultures. My goal is to inspire men all over the world to embrace the art of seduction and to live a life full of unforgettable sexual experiences and adventurous travel.

I recently thought about the fact that not women, but men are the real losers of the dating game. I really racked my brain about how to explain to you in the right way, why I men are eventually the losers when it comes to dating; at least the majority of men.

A couple of weeks ago I read an interesting article about why women lose the dating game, in which the author, who is a woman, explains that women lose their market value when they pass the age of 30 and at the same time the market value of men increases, as soon as they pass the age of 30. She also claims that many women over 30 can’t find a decent man and end up being lonely and miserable, because of a combination of unrealistic standards, focus on their career and the false believe of getting every man they want, even in a high age.

It is simply a fact that men become more attractive as older as they get and women less attractive as older as they get.  If this is true, you might expect me to congratulate all men who are now winning the dating game and enjoy their life with an abundance of seduction, sex and beautiful women.

If that is the case, why do I come up with the idea that not women, but men are the real losers in the dating game?

Because men all over the world are too brainwashed to realize that they can easily win the dating game. That’s why they are the real losers of this game.

Many men believe that they can’t get younger women and that they are creeps or perverts, in case they dare to approach women who are younger than they are because movies, the media and the society told them that this is wrong.

What if I tell you that I know so many guys who never had it easier in their life to seduce and have sex with women in their early twenties or even younger as soon as they turned thirty? Think about how many women confess that they are attracted to older men and think about all the opportunities you might have missed because of some wrong believes.

In case you don’t make use of this fact, you lose the dating game.

Many men marry women who are about the same age as they are, as soon as they are 30. Most of the time the woman harasses the poor guy to marry her and start a family because she is apparently so in love with him.

What if I tell you that a woman knows exactly what she is worth in the dating market and also knows that your sexual value increases and her sexual value decreases while getting older? Come to think about it, if it is really love that makes her want to marry you at this particularly stage of her life or if it might be her need for security to not end up lonely and her will to not let you discover your full potential with women, which would maybe lead you to leave her…just a thought.

In case you don’t make use of this fact, you lose the dating game.

Don’t get me wrong. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being in a relationship with a woman who has the same age as you are or a woman who is even older than you. There is also nothing wrong with getting married to a woman you truly love and who loves you. There is really nothing wrong with all of that, at least if you don’t choose this path because of a misconception of the dating game.

The divorce rates get higher and higher and many men are desperate to find the love of their life through online dating or they regard going to prostitutes as the only chance of experiencing sex. Some men over a certain age are afraid that they never find a woman again after a break-up or divorce. Most relationships are unhappy and most marriages are unhappy too.

Your life doesn’t have to be like that. You can choose a different path. You can live a fulfilling dating life, experience unforgettable seduction stories, enjoy sex with amazingly beautiful women and travel the world in search of crazy sexual adventures with foreign beauties.

You don’t have to lose the dating game, unless you don’t realize that you have the potential to win it.



Check out Sebastian’s blog over at www.seductionsextravel.com






A Beginner’s Guide To Attracting Women Without Lines And Routines with Myke Macapinlac

Today we have a Guest Post from Myke Macapinlac on a beginner’s guide to attracting women without the cliche lines or pick up routines. Myke has an awesome new book coming out shortly and as I am a major fan of his blog, I asked him to put together a list of what he considers the most important points of interest a beginner needs when they seek to attract more women into their awesome life. I’ll be reviewing Myke’s book too when it is released.

Enter Myke ….


Learning to be suave with the ladies is a skill that could be learned systematically just like anything else. If you’ve learned how to play an instrument or get good at any sport, then you have what it takes to attract the kind of woman you want. With enough time, effort and repetition, success will be inevitable.

First of all, you have to understand the fundamentals. In this article, we’re going to talk about all the basic things you need to be aware of with regards to dating.





I know for myself, after a devastating break up with my long-term girlfriend, this as an area of my life that needed to be handled. I wanted options. I never wanted to be in a situation where I don’t have the ability to choose and decide for myself.

Before you even go out and try to meet women, ask yourself “why.” What is your purpose for learning this skill? Why do you want to be good with women? Find that emotional attachment.

Everything is hard in the beginning before it gets easier. By knowing your reason, whatever that may be, that will fuel you to get over the learning curve. It doesn’t matter what your reason is. Learn it, know it and internalize it.


The way men and women communicate are very different. You have to know and understand that. Men are logical. Women are emotional. How you talk with your guy friends on a Friday night while drinking beer will not work if you’re on a date.

Women respond better to how things feel. They are more emotionally sensitive. The mistake that most men commit is they try to logically convince women that they are a catch. They think money and cars are what women look for.


While those things matter, it does very little for attraction. Women desire to be taken by a man who is confident and self-assured. They want to align themselves with someone who has a strong identity. Communicate to women that you are that guy and you’ll be ahead than 99% of other men.


Whoever told you looks don’t matter is probably blind or not good looking themselves. Of course it does. Do you go up to a woman you’ve need met before and compliment her personality right away? Of course not.

What if you don’t look like a Hollywood celebrity or a runway model from Milan? That’s not what I’m talking about. If you weren’t born with good looks, fear not. Women just want you to be well-groomed and somewhat in shape.

As long as you don’t have a protruding belly, body odour or unkept facial hair then you’re good. Just look like you care and put in a bit of effort with your appearance. Designer clothes and bulging muscles are not necessary.

First impression matters. When you meet a woman for the first time, her attraction towards you will either be there or not. Take care of these fundamentals and you’ll increase your probability of her wanting to get to know you more.

You deserve to be with the kind of woman you want for yourself. Being in a happy and fulfilling relationship has to be one of the best things any man will ever experience in his lifetime.




For more detailed and in depth information about dating, make sure to check out Magnetic Dating, a gentleman’s guide to attracting his ideal woman the honest way.




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How to Get an Awesome Life with Bobby Rio


Who: Bobby Rio

Where is he normally: http://www.tsbmag.com/

Why should I care what he has to say: Bobby runs the hughly successful website ‘TSB Mag’. The site is the leading men’s website for dating and lifestyle advice. TSB Magazine is one of the most popular in the world for guys looking to improve their “game” with women. And even features a free 31 Days to Better Game challenge. Bobby has been helping men learn how to flirt, attract women, and improve their overall social life for the past six years. And is known for his ability to help shy or boring guys create more fun, playful, and flirtatious conversations with women. You can learn more about him at www.makesmalltalksexy.com. Plus he lets me publish guest posts on his site, so he is a very smart man! 🙂



NLG: Can you please tell us a little about yourself, your journey from average dude to running a hugely successful website? Can you tell me about how you got into the dating/pick up community – what made you want to get a handle on your dating life?

BR: I’ve been a lifetime consumer of “self help” books, business books, et .  And studying dating advice was a natural fit for me.  God knows I needed to learn it. My problem was I was always too “shy” around women (and people in general) and the average self help book never really dealt with this issue. Sure it gave basic advice on being more confident. But it wasn’t until I stumbled on dating advice that I actually realized there are people out who can show me how to do this better.  As for starting TSB it was just an extension of my personality.  I love learning, growing, socializing… and to be able to create a communicate of like minded guys all looking to better themselves was an ideal project for me to start.



NLG: And what do you think it is to be a proper man nowadays?

BR: Being a man is 100% about personal responsibility.  No guy on a white horse in gonna ride in and save you. If you want something… its your job to MAKE IT HAPPEN.  The information is there. There are countless articles, books, youtube videos teaching how to do anything you could possibly want to do. So in this day and age you have no excuses.  And the sooner a guy realizes this the better.   

NLG: A great tip for anyone wanting to change. Can you explain what picking up women taught about yourself, social interaction and life in general? How do you think you have changed since you started pick up?

BR: It grew my confidence by leaps and bounds.  Its funny because you take it for granted once you have it.   I often look at my girlfriend or at some of the other girls ive dating over the past few years and I think “damn, my high school self would be shocked and proud.”

And I look at the lifestyle I live in terms of my career and financial independence and think “damn my college self would be shocked.” 

NLG: Your site is awesome and I’ve got some brilliant girls using some of the advice I got from it. What do you consider your best videos/articles for a newbie?

BR: I really believe my Small Talk Tactics report which I give away at www.makesmalltalksexy.com is one of the best pieces of advice that you can learn from me. But I’m partial to advice that has to do with conversation since that was my weak spot.  Also i’m pretty proud of the Success Principles series I wrote about 5 years ago…  Here’s a linkto one of the artciles: http://www.tsbmag.com/2008/09/02/the-success-principles-take-100-responsibility-for-your-life/


NLG: With regards to social interaction, what tips have you learnt that are successful but counter-intutive?

BR: I learned the hard way with girls that the stuff they “say” they want is never usually what they want. Twice I sent flowers to a girl at work. And both times it ended badly.

One of the most counter-intuitive things is when a woman starts losing interest in you. Most guys think if she’s losing interest they have to try to win her backby being more available or gaming her more. WRONG. When a girl starts losing interest the best way to get her back is to appear that YOUR LOSING INTEREST. Yep.  As long as a girl thinks you’ll ‘be there’ if she changes her mind- she’s likely to leave. But if she senses that you might not be there, her fear of loss kicks in…and suddenly she wants you back


NLG: A great tip! Your site has a immense readership but imagine if you were to talk to all of mankind at once, what would you say (feel free to plug a product here) – what motivation or telling off would you say?

BR: I’m going to go a little simple here:

Two things:

1.  You got to believe.   Yep.  Whether its believing that you CAN get that hot girl. Or believing that you can start a successful business. You MUST believe that its possible.  If there is even the slightest element of doubt you’ll give up before you reach the finish line

2. You got to really want it.  Yep. You can’t just think it would be nice to have- you have to want it so badly that you’re willing to burn all avenues of retreat. If you don’t want it that badly- you wont get it.  Whether its success with women or in business- you need to have a burning desire for success.


NLG: That’s something that took me a while to learn. However, on your site, you have a great series called ‘Awesome Men Throughout History’ where you show great men throughout time for readers to aspire to be like. Who do you look to for role models and inspiration in your own life?

BR: I try to look for self made men. Men with a vision.  I read a lot of biographies.  And try to take inspiration from all of them.


NLG: You’ve made some great products over the year. Where do you find your creativity from and what advice would you give anybody who wants to create their own products for sale on their website?

BR: Wants.

Only create product that fulfill what people really want. ‘Conversation Escalation’ is still hugely successful three years after its release because guys WANT badly to learn what to say to a girl.  Too many guys create program because they think the product is ‘new’ or ‘cool’ or guys will ike it.  But if guys aren’t out there in desperate need of what you’re selling- more than likely it will fail.


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NLG: Your website has exploded in popularity over the last few years. What advice would you give to any new bloggers who want to improve their websites?

BR: Focus on builiding an email list.  Too many bloggers (myself included when i started) don’t realize how important it is to build up an email list of guys who like their stuff.  Guys will forget to go back to your site unless you remind them its there.


NLG: Speaking of tips, what 3 tips would you give to the average frustrated guy to get good with women as quickly as possible?

BR: Focus on three things in every conversation:

1.  Have fun with her.  Yep.  More than anything else, make the interaction fun.  If she’s not having fun her attention will wander and nothing else you do will be nearly as effective.

2.  Create a connection with her.   Show her that you see her as a unique woman. Notice things about how she acts. Tell her things about herself.

LISTEN to what she’s saying. People are STARVED to be listened to.

3. Create a sexual response.  DO NOT hide the fact that you’re sexually attracted to her.  As long as she’s having fun and feels a connection to you can be very forward with your sexual intent.

NLG: Thanks for speaking to me Bobby! For more great tips on how to build an awesome life with girls you want, check out Bobby’s site, using the links below.




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