Guest Post: Why Some Men Lose The Dating Game

Hi, today we have an awesome guest post from an up and coming writer by the name of Sebastian, who writes about men, women and the chaos that most men call dating life!

Over to Sebastian ….



My name is Sebastian and I am the owner of My vision is to help men to live a life true to themselves and a life in which they can be authentic, honest and confident in the presence of women. I write articles about foreign dating and seduction in different cultures. My goal is to inspire men all over the world to embrace the art of seduction and to live a life full of unforgettable sexual experiences and adventurous travel.

I recently thought about the fact that not women, but men are the real losers of the dating game. I really racked my brain about how to explain to you in the right way, why I men are eventually the losers when it comes to dating; at least the majority of men.

A couple of weeks ago I read an interesting article about why women lose the dating game, in which the author, who is a woman, explains that women lose their market value when they pass the age of 30 and at the same time the market value of men increases, as soon as they pass the age of 30. She also claims that many women over 30 can’t find a decent man and end up being lonely and miserable, because of a combination of unrealistic standards, focus on their career and the false believe of getting every man they want, even in a high age.

It is simply a fact that men become more attractive as older as they get and women less attractive as older as they get.  If this is true, you might expect me to congratulate all men who are now winning the dating game and enjoy their life with an abundance of seduction, sex and beautiful women.

If that is the case, why do I come up with the idea that not women, but men are the real losers in the dating game?

Because men all over the world are too brainwashed to realize that they can easily win the dating game. That’s why they are the real losers of this game.

Many men believe that they can’t get younger women and that they are creeps or perverts, in case they dare to approach women who are younger than they are because movies, the media and the society told them that this is wrong.

What if I tell you that I know so many guys who never had it easier in their life to seduce and have sex with women in their early twenties or even younger as soon as they turned thirty? Think about how many women confess that they are attracted to older men and think about all the opportunities you might have missed because of some wrong believes.

In case you don’t make use of this fact, you lose the dating game.

Many men marry women who are about the same age as they are, as soon as they are 30. Most of the time the woman harasses the poor guy to marry her and start a family because she is apparently so in love with him.

What if I tell you that a woman knows exactly what she is worth in the dating market and also knows that your sexual value increases and her sexual value decreases while getting older? Come to think about it, if it is really love that makes her want to marry you at this particularly stage of her life or if it might be her need for security to not end up lonely and her will to not let you discover your full potential with women, which would maybe lead you to leave her…just a thought.

In case you don’t make use of this fact, you lose the dating game.

Don’t get me wrong. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being in a relationship with a woman who has the same age as you are or a woman who is even older than you. There is also nothing wrong with getting married to a woman you truly love and who loves you. There is really nothing wrong with all of that, at least if you don’t choose this path because of a misconception of the dating game.

The divorce rates get higher and higher and many men are desperate to find the love of their life through online dating or they regard going to prostitutes as the only chance of experiencing sex. Some men over a certain age are afraid that they never find a woman again after a break-up or divorce. Most relationships are unhappy and most marriages are unhappy too.

Your life doesn’t have to be like that. You can choose a different path. You can live a fulfilling dating life, experience unforgettable seduction stories, enjoy sex with amazingly beautiful women and travel the world in search of crazy sexual adventures with foreign beauties.

You don’t have to lose the dating game, unless you don’t realize that you have the potential to win it.



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About the Author
I would modestly describe myself as a Website Badass, Blogging Guru and Self Improvement Wizard! I'm a blogger and entrepreneur who writes to help men develop and better their lives using examples from popular media. My personal journey has been marked by awkwardness and awesomeness, OCD and 'OMG'. I'm 33, a Teuchter and currently resides in the United Kingdom. I've set my own foot on fire whilst reading and been a midwife to sheep! I also run for your website needs!

3 comments on Guest Post: Why Some Men Lose The Dating Game

  1. LR says:

    Men are less attractive as they get older. Women look more attractive as they get older and they’ve got a huge abundance of handsome, eligible men since they take care of their skin better compared to men. Women should always win in the dating game while men lose with no good women available for them at all. Hey, women can have sex with gigolos instead.

    1. Thanks for the comment but I disagree. It is widely considered that men age better than women. A vast majority of women use their looks to get what they want and they tie in their worth to their looks. As women age, there is always another better looking, younger woman to replace her. It has coined the term ‘trophy brides’ and you see how regularly these sorts of guys replace their partners. As men age, they mature, become more confident in themselves and realise their purpose in life. Women tend to long for their past, judge themselves against other women more and lose value in themselves. Men win more as they age but everyone should. It’s the bullshit way we attach value to looks, over talent, skill etc, in our modern society that is most messed up in this world.

  2. Jim says:

    It’s hard to generalise. If the guy became a homeless bum when he reached 50 then he wou d have zero value in the dating market. However, there is a higher rate that a man can earn more than a woman over a life time. Money makes the world go round.

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