#185 Stirling Cooper on how to transform your sex life!

September 2, 2023 Ian Dawson Mackay ALL PODCAST EPISODES, DATING & RELATIONSHIPS, MINDSET & MENTAL STRENGTH 1:02:32 0 Comments

TODAY's GUEST IS Stirling Cooper!

Today’s guest is Stirling Cooper!

Stirling is an award winning adult film star and sex coach to thousands of men, helping men become better lovers and eliminate issues such as premature ejaculation and performance anxiety..

Sex is a learnable skill just like any other and his goal is to teach men how to be better in bed and better men, where he emphasizes the importance of undoing the damage that modern society has done to men by teaching them to embrace unapologetic masculinity and live a life more in touch with their true nature. His aim is to help you destroy the most common mental triggers, thought patterns and mind fucks that cause men to lose their mojo in the bedroom.

Please note, this episode is not suitable for listening to at work, and is explicit. 

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Here are some key points that I would advise you to concentrate on

  • All through your life, you create experiences and a unique skill-set, that you can use for a better job, to be creative and give back to the world. 
  • Life offers a lot of moments where it offers you a chance to change, to start again, try something new, or chase your dreams, you just need to take the chance, not to hold onto the comfort zone or the painful life as it’s not that painful enough to leave yet. Go for it.
  • Your attitude to sex determines how you will have sex and the partners you will attract.  
  • You should not be ashamed of what attracts you, what you want to try in bed, but remember consent and communication! You need to discuss it, seek consent, connect and remember consent can be removed at any time. Be open to new ideas, suggest and be mature enough to accept a no, or not right now reply. Communicate before, during and after, as you grow sexually and even as a couple. Let her or him or them, explore themselves, try new things, and grow in bed and as a person.   
  • If you struggling with performance anxiety, premature ejaculation etc, don’t beat yourself up. Their are methods that can help such as edging, and perhaps even medication if required. Never beat yourself up or feel worthless, you just need to find the tools and methods to fix the issues to get the sex that you want and deserve. 
  • It’s not the relationship that affects your sex abilities, its more your confidence, your sleep and diet, your self-esteem, and attitudes towards what you deserve in life. 
  • The type of media that you consumes will affect you, what you consider masculine and how you approach relationships and dating. Ensure you are only consuming content that makes you feel motivated, worthy and confident in life. Consume less, create more. 
  • Your understanding and ability at ‘sex’ is not stuck and can be developed and evolved with some work on yourself, your body, female anatomy and human dynamics. 
  • Unfortunately, sex education in schools is focused on reproduction only, and do not consider or explain kinks, use of toys etc, on how sex is a pleasure thing as much as to create life. The education needs a serious revamp to help kids discover who they are and what they want in life from dating, relationships and sex as much as they are taught about what they want for a career. 
  • You’d be very surprised in what women want in life, they crave better sex, sometimes extreme, sometimes kink, the use of toys and so much more. Unfortunately, not a lot of women will vocalize what they want, and it needs healthy communication to open up about their desires on what they want and what they want to try. 
  • Being great in bed isn’t a Gold award though, you need to have a mission in life, a series of high quality values and a series of goals you want – girls want a high quality, and driven man. Dating and partners should improve a life, not become your whole life or make up for a lack of one. 
  • Just because you had a shit relationship or poor sex when you were younger, you can start again right now, learn some foreplay tricks, learn about toys, psychological sensation tools and methods, and more. You can change and improve right now, believe you can and start today. 
  • You don’t need to treat women like shit to be good or even great in bed, you need to understand women’s wants and desire, what people want in relationships and connections and sex, is far more important. 
  • You need to consider where you are going to meet your potential partners, if you don’t want someone who parties all the times, is a nightclub the best place to look? Would a library be better? What about a club for an activity or sport you like, you will meet people with similar interests to yourself there. 
  • It’s not just what you say that matters, it’s how you hold yourself (body language) and how you say things (vocal tonality) that also affects how people judge you. 
  • The most important relationship in your life needs to be the one you have with yourself. Look at how you speak to yourself, how you judge yourself and what you think your role or ability is in life. A lot of men let their inner voice speak to them in a way that they would never accept from another, so why do you let yourself speak to yourself like that? Your inner thoughts, will build your confidence, create a better level of self-esteem and better habits. With better habits, you will get more positive reference points in life, and you will start to value yourself more and what you are capable of in life. It all starts with your inner belief and thoughts. Fix that shit inner voice! 
  • You deserve great sex, great relationships and great things in life. Stop letting other people’s opinion and your comfort zone to hold you back in life. 

LEVEL UP Time WITH THIS KEY LESSON!

You can become better in bed. Sex is a learnable skill-set like anything else, you just need to learn the methods and actions on how to be better and to deal with the areas of your life holding you back. You can change, believe you can, follow Stirling’s guide, work on yourself, learn about pleasure and connection and get to work on leveling up your sex life! 

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I’m a podcaster who interviews great examples of people to discuss and highlight the methods, hacks, tips and procedures you can use in your own life to help you develop and better your life. I would definitely not consider myself an expert, so to improve, I ask them and action it in my own life! My personal journey has been marked by awkwardness and awesomeness, OCD and ‘OMG’. I have suffered with depression, shyness, unhappiness and lack of focus and motivation so I know what’s it like to feel lost and hopeless. Back then, I wished I had a podcast to listen to and find actual fixes and concrete action steps and not just unobtainable suggestions and promotion of their products but couldn’t find it … so I made my own!

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