THE GUEST
Today’s guest is the return of legal sex worker, sex educator intimacy master, a favourite guest of mine and genuine person Alice Little.
Alice Little is the number one booking legal sex worker in the United States and works as a courtesan at the Moonlite Bunny Ranch. At only 4ft 8in, she is by far the tiniest lady at the legal brothels in Nevada. A New York native, she has worked as an EMT and horse jockey, loves electronic and tabletop entertainment, and adores intellectual stimulation. A frequent visitor to Virginia City and fascinated by its history, she loves exploring Nevada and all it has to offer. Alice has presented at over 50 Kink and BDSM events nationwide and frequently help couples with their problems in and out of the bedroom. She has recently started writing relationship advice articles for She Knows Media and was also recently featured on the Tim Ferriss Show.
In this interview, we discuss how to level up your sex life.
And be sure to check out Alice’s first interview, which was EPISODE #43 ALICE LITTLE ON INTIMACY, CONNECTION AND WHY OUR PERCEPTIONS OF SEX WORK ARE VERY WRONG
LISTEN HERE
WHAT IS DISCUSSED
In this interview, we discuss gems like:
- Who they are
- How she would work with a client
- Is the world
- How has technology changed our dating and communication skills with one another
- How to build a true connection with a sexual partner
- What to do when one partner wants more sex than the other or has a past problem with a sexual element
- The importance of and need for consent before any sexual activity, the difference between passive to active consent
- Why do women tend to not enjoy sex or get to orgasm
- How do we learn how to find out what they enjoy and the pleasure of the female partner
- The way to keep the spice alive in your relationships
- How has the reception to sex work changed since Alice has done more interviews
- The items you need in your sex drawer!
- How to introduce sex toys into sexy time!
- How do you build the heat up while the clothes are still on
- Foreplay hacks to ignite the passion in your partner
- Why you NEED oral sex in your life
- Why sex does not have a users manual
- Best positions to use
- How to fix issues with premature ejaculations
- How to be confident during sex activities you are maybe not used to or feel awkward about doing such as role play.
- Body language and its importance on knowing when to switch things up and what is working and what is not
- How you should ask for a particular fetish, scenario or use of toys etc
- Why you should not be afraid of anal play, for women AND men … and no it doesn’t make you gay for exploring anal play as a straight man
- The need for and how to clean your sex toys
- How you can connect with them
KEY POINTS TO REFLECT ON & LINKS MENTIONED
- Coffee with Alice
- Intimacy is one of the key reasons for a relationships success or demise
- We are very social creatures, we thrive off connection and intimacy with one another
- Learning to read body language is a good thing to learn some basic indicators with, so you can learn how to relax, motivate and encourage your partners
- You should want to build a connection with someone, and be genuinely interested in them, and not just as a sexual being or conquest. Building a connection, helps you both build a strong base and you can then build on top of this and explore your needs, wants and desires.
- Be vulnerable, open and honest with your partners, look to communicate frequently with your partner away from the bedroom, to build that understanding, connection and attraction organically.
- Be specific and genuine in your comments to your partner
- You need to participate in self-care as much care about your partner’s needs etc
- You need to participate in self-care as much care about your partner’s needs etc
- Communication should be the sexiest word in your attitude towards sex
- Let go of sexual expectations and just be in the moment
- Sex is not ‘A-B-C’ framework, what works for one partner, might not work for another. Stop going to ‘old favorites’ and ask what they want.
- Lose your ego. If you can’t give an orgasm, stop sulking and ASK why. Communicate with her and find out the truth from her that works and tend to her needs.
- Sex can be adapted to suit your needs and desires, sex can be open, exciting and fulfilling for all partners. If you have a mobility issue, google how to have sex with your particular issue. There are plenty of sex furniture items, mobility aids, sex toys etc that can work for your particular needs regardless if its with a partner or yourself.
CONNECT WITH THE GUEST
Click on the links and social media handles below to connect with the guest:
Website- Email: AliceLittle@TheAliceLittle.com
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Instagram 
YouTube - Coffee with Alice
WHAT SHOULD YOU DO AFTER LISTENING
These are some key actions that you should undertake after listening to this interview:
- Take some long, slow deep breaths, and let your body relax
- Go and get the items Alice outlines for your sex drawer and accomodation in general
- Show true, genuine interest in your partner and look to build intimacy into your relationships, in AND outside of the bedroom!
- If you want, get your own fleshlight for some self-care if you are single 🙂
- Spice up your sex life by introducing sex toys and gadgets in the bedroom. Have a look at: Geeky Sex Toys an affiliate that has awesome toys, brings out you inner nerd and they are badass!
- Pick up a book on body language, I would recommend this one
- Buy a sex toy cleaner. Alice recommends this one
- Sign up for Alice’s Sex Toy Patreon
- Sign up for Alice’s Only Fan
- Watch Alice’s great (but age-restricted) video on best sex positions for her
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