Here are some key points that I would advise you to concentrate on:

• You don’t need to do it all – a Next Level Guy finds a coach to help them level up in the areas they need help with! Dr Glover is a key man to help you get the dates and life you want!
• There is a big difference between being yourself and a nice guy! Hiding yourself and playing a character is one of the worst things you can do!
• Too many men hide who they are and what they truly want in life. 
• There are many reasons why nice guys do not finish first – because being a nice guy isn’t being yourself, it’s playing a character you think others want you to be and hide the bad parts of yourself and what you want and need. People pick up on this and that you aren’t being true to the real you! 
• You partner wants and deserve the real you, not the person you think everyone else wants you to be. Be yourself and your tribe and a person who loves you for you, will find you. 
• A nice guy tends to use covert contracts, where they give to get, not from the kindness of their heart, but simply to get something in return. 
• A nice guy tends to underachieve, to avoid being in the spot-light, to avoid criticism and rather find people below them, that they can fix and avoid working on themselves. 
• Our relationships with our fathers dictates the type of man that we will be.
• Men are told to be dominant, powerful and to do it all on our own, not to ask for help or be vulnerable and it’s terrible advice! Take that risk and being vulnerable, and people will accept the real you. By being the real you, you can act as you are, and stop following the time wasting and self-destructive habits you use to hide the real you. 
• Bottled up emotions and feelings is one of the main culprits that cause men to self-destruct themselves and act out.   
• Being curious, and challenging our behaviors we want to stop, is a great method to find the real reason behind them, and what you need to do to stop running and start dealing with them. 
• Men spending time with men, and discussing the real them, their real worries, their real struggles and seeing how we all share the same issue, is a secret sauce fix to what is holding us back. Find the tribe you can be you with, stop pushing in content, start creating. Stop consuming, start creating, start taking action, and watch your life change instantly!  
• There are many men improvement clubs out there, if one doesn’t work for you, try another, there will be many that fit you, your needs and wants. 
• Shame loses it’s power by sharing it with safe people, and listening to them sharing their shame. We all have shame, by sharing it, it loses the power it holds over you. 
• Admitting our mistakes, our worries, our fears, our rough edges, are the things that make us lovable and attractive to others to date and mate with. Stop hiding the real you!